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Can a person maintain the same level of love and interest in their partner throughout their lifetime? It's a debatable question. From an evolutionary perspective, being with only one partner isn't exactly an animal instinct — and humans, at their core, are animals too. But we’ve become social beings, set up rules, and continue to refine them over time based on evolving thought patterns.
Despite following societal rules around marriage, human nature can still influence us. That’s why many end up separating from their partners and even taking legal routes like divorce. So the question arises: does simply living together guarantee lasting love or interest in a partner? Research suggests it doesn’t always.
Some people may feel deep affection for their partner right after marriage — especially in love marriages where they can’t imagine life without each other. But whether those feelings remain constant over time is another matter.
In arranged marriages, couples might come together after just a 15-minute meeting. Initially, they may not fully understand each other, but over time they might grow close and fall in love. Interestingly, while love marriages might fade in intensity over time, arranged ones may blossom. It’s all individual — and depends on how both partners adapt and nurture the relationship.
But here are some signs, according to studies, that indicate a person may be losing interest in their partner:
If your conversations revolve more around finances, household tasks, or work rather than emotional connection, this is considered a red flag. Emotional intimacy taking a backseat can indicate fading interest.
Being constantly busy — with work, hobbies, or other obligations — and not spending quality time with your partner isn’t just about having a packed schedule. Studies suggest it may actually reflect a decline in interest. No matter how busy one is, making time for your partner and family should be a priority.
A decline in physical attraction or intimacy — even lack of basic touch or affection — is seen as a strong warning sign. This doesn't just mean less sex, but also loss of desire for any kind of physical closeness.
If your partner never discusses future plans or dreams with you, doesn’t include you in their long-term thinking, or avoids talking about life goals — that could mean they don’t envision you in their future.
If your partner frequently criticizes you or gets annoyed over minor things, always pointing out flaws, it’s likely a sign of growing disinterest and dissatisfaction in the relationship.
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